Mrs. Bibiyan is currently a successfully faded JW. Both of her parents have died while she was relatively young and still a JW "in good standing".
KS, your assesment of a delayed grief is spot on - I am no psychologist, but in Mrs. Bibiyan it seemed to result in a depression that still has lingering effects....
The cruelty of the timing was unbelievable, just as you write, when immediatelly after the death of her grandmother (another lifelong JW), the "friends" showed up at our doorstep in an ill-disguised attempt to "offer hope".